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Soft spoken young guy looking for something permanant

I'm a mild-mannered soft spoken coloured guy. 19 yrs old turning 20. Short brown hair and brown eyes and average height.

I love reading and writing, not much interested in the party life, but I do love to go out. I love to cuddle and and I'm very affectionate, though straight acting.

I love watching manga, laughing, sci-fi and romance. I may be soft spoken but I speak my mind. I'd like to think I'm funny and can make people laugh. I often get mistaken for a girl especially when my hair was long, which makes me think peole are blind. lol!

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EthnicityMixed Race
National heritageSouth African
Height173 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorDark brown
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairShaved
Best featureLips
Health ConditionNo problems


Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationIt gets a bit crazy sometimes
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateMaybe
Have PetsDog
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyHospitality / Travel
Employment StatusUnemployed

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesCartoons, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies
Favorite TV showsI love watching ghost whisperer though I hardly watch much tv
Favorite movies typesScience fiction, Romance, Animation
Favorite moviesThere are too many
Music typesCountry, Rock, Electronic, Pop, New age, Dance
Reading selectionFantasy, Fiction, Science fiction
Idea of funAnything romantic(what? so sue me), movies, the beach(not ice cold waters thank you very much!)
HobbiesArts & Crafts, Reading, Cooking, Camping, Volunteering


SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingOne or two
Social behaviorReserved
Friends describe asFriendly
In High School I was a(n)Average Joe
Sense of humorDry / sarcastic
My great timeHanging out with friends, Staying at home, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Reading a book, Playing video games, Going to a concert


Political viewsLiberal
Goal in lifeMy goal in life is to become a professional writer and to one day own my own book/coffee shop.

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerI look for someone who is strong, yet sensitive. Someone a little older (",), mature who doesn't drink alot. who likes to talk but does not mind sometimes spending hours together in silence. Someone I can talk to about anything and everything, who loves to read(because many people dont read at all (-_-) ).

I want someone who doesnt mind taking the lead, but who is not controlling( abusers need not apply).

Someone who is generally happy in life, mistakes and all.
On the first dateI'd prefer something simple. Like dinner and a movie, or just a private dinner for two. Just doing something fun and simple.